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Therapy & Coaching for Gay Men

For gay men who are done repeating the same relationship patterns—and want real emotional security, not more insight.

If you’re here, you’ve probably already done the work.

Maybe you've done self-reflection, read the books, and watched endless videos.

And yet, in dating or relationships, you keep ending up in versions of the same dynamic:

  • intense beginnings that burn out

  • closeness followed by withdrawal

  • attraction to emotionally unavailable partners

  • or a constant feeling of anxiety, effort, or self-abandonment

This work is for gay men who don’t just want to understand these patterns, but want to change them.

How I Work

I’m a licensed psychotherapist in California and Florida, and I also work with gay men internationally through coaching.

My approach is:

  • attachment-based

  • trauma-informed

  • direct, relational, and depth-oriented

This isn’t symptom management or surface-level advice.

We focus on:

  • understanding why your patterns formed

  • how they show up in real-time relationships

  • and how to build emotional security that actually holds under pressure

Therapy Vs. Coaching

If you’re located in California or Florida, we may work together through psychotherapy.

 

If you’re outside those states—or prefer a non-clinical framework—we can work together through coaching.

We’ll determine the best fit during the consultation.

You don’t need to decide that now.

Investment

This work is an investment.

It’s designed for men who are financially stable and ready to prioritize their emotional lives—not just think about them.

Sessions are private, focused, and tailored to you.
Most clients work with me for weekly or biweekly sessions.

Sessions are 50 minutes. My rate is $300 per session. I am not in-network with any insurance provider.

Are You A Good Fit?

This is likely a good fit if:

  • You’re emotionally curious and self-reflective

  • You’re ready for long-term change—not reassurance

  • You value depth, honesty, and accountability

  • You’re willing to invest in yourself

This may not be a good fit if:

  • You’re looking for quick dating tips

  • You want therapy only covered by insurance

  • You’re unsure whether you want to commit to the work

Get Started Now

If this resonates, the next step is a free consultation call.

This is a chance for us to:

  • clarify what’s actually keeping you stuck

  • see whether we’re a good fit

  • and determine the best way to work together

 

Book your free consultation below.

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8271 Melrose Ave.

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Los Angeles, CA 90046

Telehealth sessions available in CA & FL

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