For gay men who are done repeating the same patterns in dating, sex, and relationships
If you’ve already done the thinking—but nothing’s actually changing—this is where we fix that.
If this sounds familiar, you’re in the right place:
​​Most guys don’t reach out because they’re in crisis.
They reach out when they realize self-reflection alone isn’t changing anything.
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• You want more than surface-level therapy
• You’re tired of vague affirmation that doesn’t actually move your life forward
• You want clarity about your relationships, sexuality, or direction
• You’ve built success — but don’t feel fully secure inside
• You know your patterns . . . but can’t seem to break them
• Something in my videos felt uncomfortably accurate
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​At a certain point, this stops being about luck—and starts being about pattern.
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If you’re ready for something to finally shift, I'm here to help.
Watching is insight. Working together is change
My videos can help you understand yourself. But therapy / coaching is where patterns actually get disrupted.
About Me:
I’m a licensed psychotherapist in California and Florida, and I also work with gay men internationally through coaching.
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My approach is:
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attachment-based
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trauma-informed
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direct, relational, and depth-oriented
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This isn’t symptom management or surface-level advice.
How I Work:
• Direct — but not harsh
• Insightful — not abstract
• Growth-focused — not pathologizing
• Collaborative — not prescriptive
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understanding why your patterns formed
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how they show up in real-time relationships
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and how to build emotional security that actually holds under pressure
Your Results:
What Changes When This Work Clicks​?
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Clients often notice:
• Dating feels less performative
• Boundaries don’t threaten connection
• Emotional triggers lose their grip
• Sex feels more connected — not just validating
• Confidence becomes internal
• Relationships feel calmer and more secure
Therapy or Coaching?
Both involve strategic work. But there are key differences:
Therapy:
→ Understanding patterns
→ Healing past wounds
→ Working through emotional challenges
→ Available in CA & FL
→ In-person sessions in West Hollywood
→ Eligible for out-of-network reimbursement
Coaching:
→ Creating change
→ Improving relationships
→ Focus on specific goals for your future
→ Moving forward with clarity
→ Cash-pay
→ No location restrictions / Available worldwide
Not sure which is right? We’ll figure that out together.
Are You A Good Fit?
This is likely a good fit if:​
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You’re emotionally curious and self-reflective
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You’re ready for long-term change—not reassurance
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You value depth, honesty, and accountability
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You’re willing to invest in yourself​​​​
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You want insight — not just validation
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You're open to being challenged
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You're interested in growth, not just coping
This may not be a good fit if:
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​You’re looking only for a place to vent
You want therapy only covered by insurance
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You’re unsure whether you want to commit to the work
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You want someone to always agree with you
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You’re not ready to examine your patterns yet
The Investment:
This work is an investment.​ It’s designed for men who are financially stable and ready to prioritize their emotional lives—not just think about them.
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Sessions are private, focused, and tailored to you. Most clients work with me for weekly or biweekly sessions.
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Sessions are 50 minutes. My rate is $300 per session. And I am not in-network with any insurance provider.
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​The consultation is a chance to see whether this feels like the right next step — before making any commitment.
Get Started Now:
If this resonates, the next step is a free consultation call.
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This is a chance for us to:
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clarify what’s actually keeping you stuck
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see whether we’re a good fit
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and determine the best way to work together
What Happens After You Book
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We meet for a free 15-minute consultation
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We clarify what’s keeping you stuck
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We decide whether working together feels aligned
No pressure. Just clarity.
