Work With Me From Anywhere
You understand the pattern. You know you're repeating it.
But despite all the insight, self-awareness, podcasts, books, and YouTube videos, you still find yourself stuck in the same place.
Maybe you're:
• Attracted to emotionally unavailable men
• Struggling to move on after a breakup
• Feeling disconnected from other gay men
• Constantly seeking validation
• Unsure what you actually want in dating and relationships
• Feeling successful on paper but lonely in your personal life
Many of the men I work with aren't looking for generic life coaching.
They're looking for someone who understands the unique experiences many gay men face—and who can help them create meaningful change.
What We Work On:
Dating & Relationships:
• Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns
• Attraction to emotionally unavailable partners
• Breakups and moving forward
• Open relationship challenges
• Building healthier connections
Confidence & Self-Worth:
• Validation-seeking
• Fear of rejection
• Social anxiety around other gay men
• Confidence in dating and relationships
• Self-trust and decision making
Personal Growth:
• Life transitions
• Career and purpose questions
• Communication skills
• Boundaries
• Building a more fulfilling life
• Finding confidence in the gay community
How Coaching Works
Coaching is collaborative and action-oriented.
Together, we’ll:
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Clarify what’s keeping you stuck
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Identify where you want to grow
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Create a path forward that feels realistic and sustainable
This is a space to reflect, strategize, and move forward — not to process clinical mental health concerns.
Coaching vs Therapy
Coaching is not a substitute for therapy.
Coaching is not appropriate for individuals seeking treatment for:
• Severe depression
• Suicidal thoughts
• PTSD or trauma treatment
• Active addiction treatment
• Psychosis or severe mental illness
If therapy would better support your needs, I will always recommend that path.
A Brief Look At My Approach
If you'd like to hear more about how I think about relationships and growth in gay men, you're welcome to watch this short overview.
In this video, I share five relationship green flags that often support healthier and more intentional connection.
Frequently Asked Questions:
Is coaching the same as therapy?
No. Coaching is not mental health treatment. Therapy focuses on healing emotional wounds and addressing clinical concerns, while coaching is future-oriented and focused on growth, clarity, and decision-making.
How do I know if coaching is right for me?
Coaching may be a good fit if you're looking for support with relationships, confidence, identity, or life direction — but are not seeking treatment for mental health conditions or trauma.
If therapy would better meet your needs, I will always recommend that path.
Do you work with clients outside the United States?
Yes. Coaching is available worldwide and conducted virtually, allowing us to work together regardless of your location.
What topics can we work on in coaching?
Coaching often focuses on:
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Relationship and dating patterns
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Confidence and self-trust
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Identity and life direction
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Communication and boundaries
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Personal growth and decision-making
Are coaching fees the same as therapy?
Yes. Coaching sessions are $300 for a 50-minute session, the same as therapy.
What if I’m unsure whether I need coaching or therapy?
That’s completely normal. A consultation can help us determine which approach is the best fit for your goals.
How do I get started?
You can begin by scheduling a consultation. This is a chance to ask questions, discuss what you’re looking for, and see if coaching feels aligned with your needs.
What if I want to try therapy instead?
No problem. Some men find that therapy is a better fit depending on their goals. You can learn more about my work as a gay therapist in Los Angeles here.
FINDING INDIVIDUAL WORK
While couples therapy focuses on the relationship itself, some individuals also pursue confidence and connection through:
Learn More About These Patterns:
If you'd like to explore some of these themes further:
Coaching Is Not Location-Specific
Unlike therapy, which is limited by state licensure, coaching is not restricted by location.
This allows me to work with clients worldwide through virtual sessions.
