the Hidden Patterns Behind Gay Relationships, Attraction & Self-Worth
I’m Michael Pezzullo — a licensed therapist and coach specializing in gay men’s mental health.
My work explores the deeper psychological patterns behind dating, relationships, intimacy, confidence, identity, and emotional disconnection.
Licensed Therapist (LMFT) • EMDR-Trained • Psychology Professor
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Relationships & Dating
Why attraction patterns repeat, why emotionally unavailable dynamics feel addictive, and why connection can feel harder than chemistry.
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Confidence, Identity & Self-Worth
Understanding validation, visibility, shame, masculinity, aging, and the emotional patterns underneath confidence struggles.
→ Explore Identity & Confidence
Sex, Intimacy & Emotional Disconnection
Topics including compulsive sex, chemsex, non-monogamy, emotional intimacy, and the psychology behind sexual behavior.
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